Day 107: Grateful for being a housewife
When I first got this role and introduced myself as one, you could practically see the thought bubble of people going, ‘Oh, that’s all’, ‘Oh, she must be dumb then’, ‘Oh, what a useless waste of life’, ‘Oh, she must be one of those who marry rich men.’
Right now, I just don’t give a s**t. People are entitled to think whatever they want, judge me however I want. But hey, sticks and stones can break my bones, but words (and maybe thought bubbles) can never harm me. Unless I let them.
I wondered, if it was more me than them at first tho. I personally didn’t want to assume that role, I had lots of resistance and deep anger towards the VISA process for subjected me to “FORCED HOUSEWIFE SHIP’. HAHA
But you know what? NOW I’m JUST LOVING it.
(Hear Hear Kris Beevers!)
There is great joy in having a nice warm loving and CLEAN house.
I like giving Kris and myself a welcoming home to return too, when he has had a tiring day and relaxing in our own space.
He comes back
whiny and tired and there’s always someone willing to listen to him (nag sometimes, but mostly listen) and prepare a hot and yummy meal.
I’m refreshed and rejuvenated at the end of the day, and so can be a cheery (MOST days) person for him to return home too. As opposed to having two stressed out and tired people having take out together. So I say we both have it good. 🙂
At the corner of my room, lies a cute lil boi and a cute lil doggie! (Digital photo frame, super cute)